This book presents modern knowledge of child psychology in a concise and accessible form. Authors Antonina Oksanych, Natalia Bida and Oleksandra Sydorchenko gathered the most important things for parenthood to be a joy and mutual respect to develop in the country. Thanks to the touching, sometimes humorous and unequivocally accurate illustrations of Yulia Tveritina, each character seems to come to life: it is so easy to recognize yourself in a child and an adult - mom or dad. No matter what they are - happy, tired, angry - parents love their children as much as they can, and this book will help everyone to calibrate their feelings, learn to express them without harm to relatives and achieve closeness in the relationship between parents and children. "I understand you! How to raise children without extremes "is an expanded and supplemented version of the book, which was included in the TOP-30 best family publications of 2019 according to" BaraBuki "(Ukrainian children's book space) and received the award" Readers' Choice ".