"We all strive to love and be loved. The only problem is that there are too many obstacles, misconceptions and patriarchal stereotypes on the path to happy love. Especially if we were born girls. This book is dedicated to the illusions that prevent the building of a pleasant and fruitful relationship. The author analyzes her own experience and tries to understand whether some of the accumulated knowledge and wisdom (and especially non-wisdom) about women, men and their relationships can be systematized, organized and used to create a "unicorn" of our time - healthy relationships. A long, serious, sarcastic, frank and painful conversation with yourself turned into a book that will not give all the answers, but will help ask the right questions and establish that you have always intuitively understood social and cultural pressure, the myth of romantic love, healthy and unhealthy relationships, anxious markers in the early stages of dating, the ability to leave on time, being yourself and trying to change another, balance and dynamics of strength in a couple, respect for their own boundaries, body and sex in relationships and other things so obvious that we tend to forget , rejecting all chances for his personal, craft, unique "long and happy". And we're worth it, damn it! "